I was just sitting here thinking to myself. Happiness is something everybody desire to have. Which, there's nothing wrong with that. I think happiness and love is a a beautiful thing. It's the best thing that you can share with another person and people in general. But happiness and love has become an idol in people lives.
I'm seeing everybody want to be made happy, but no one knows how to give it, to themselves. Let's, take a second and think, about it! You always hear people say. " I want somebody to MAKE me happy," or you hear people saying," he/she don't MAKE me happy." Let's take a second to evaluate the word MAKE. When you hear the word MAKE it sound likes a demanding word. So, imagine the pressure we put on others to MAKE us FEEL a way we should make ourselves FEEL.
What if we took the time to make ourselves happy? Why pressure someone else for a way we often can struggle with ourselves. Let's do a self-evaluation!! Question, are you happy? Do you know how to make yourself happy? Do you depend on others to make you happy? We should never make someone else responsible for our happiness. No one should ever have the authority to determine when you can you happy. Ladies, our happiness comes from God and ourselves.
It really saddened me to see there's so many marriages and relationship that are failing due to happiness. At some point we must take accountable for the things in our lives. We could be the root to the problems and cycles in our life. I got some good news girl!! It's never to late to start. You can start right now! Let's live a happy and productive life.
Now, look girl! I'm saying saying be in a relationship where you are unhappy? By all mean necessary we all deserves happiness and love. All I'm saying is, don't look to people like a God. Don't make people an idle to your happiness. It's time to start working on self so when
your husband comes you are prepared.
"We Got This!"
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